She, now

She loves being tickled. Until she hates it, ten seconds later.

She smells like bubblegum and fresh apple.

Super models would envy her eyelashes, and her milk-and-honey skin.

Her favorite Littlest Pet Shop figurines are named Sleepy Carl and Backwards Bob. (Don't ask me. I have no idea.)

She would eat her weight in Asiago cheese if I let her.

She calls the boyfriend, C, at work regularly, demanding to know when she'll see him again, and calls him, hilariously, "Char-Char." (As you can imagine, he looooves this.)

She has an irrational fear of birds.

Her favorite music of the moment: Sleater Kinney, The Magnetic Fields, the soundtrack to Tim Burton's Alice In Wonderland.

(This Halloween she plans to dress as Alice, and has asked me to dress as The Red Queen. We're negotiating.)

She's fascinated by video production and stop-motion animation.

She wants to be an artist. I tell her she already is one. 

Almost every day she still says to me, seemingly out of the blue, "I miss Zelda." And my heart breaks a little.

She hates ice cream, except the cotton candy flavored variety.

She asks me for hugs several times each day, usually at the precise moment I'm most busy or overwhelmed.

Her cheeks are so perfectly sprayed with freckles it looks as though they might've been applied dot-by-dot with a marker.

She goes into the second grade on Monday, at her new school. She's excited — I'm the one who's nervous.

She's seven, very nearly eight now. Christ, how did she get so big so fast?

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She's still my baby, however old she gets.

She is, and will always be, my one perfect thing.

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  • http://thekiddiecocktail.typepad.com/the-kiddie-cocktail/ Roberta

    She is beautiful, as are your words to describe her. Thanks for sharing her. [Wiping away tears.]

  • rebecca

    Great, crying now.

  • http://issascrazyworld.com Issa

    She's beautiful. As was this post.

  • http://notlikeipictured.blogspot.com Rachel

    Beautiful.

  • http://www.nottherockefellers.blogspot.com Rene Foran

    she is the answer to all of those shooting star wishes.
    Rene

  • Alyce

    This is a lovely post. I can't wait to hear how second grade goes.
    p.s. Sleeping Carl is the name of a short-lived iPhone app (no longer available for some reason). It's Talking Carl asleep on a cloud, snoring. You know the red square guy who repeats what you say. Backwards Bob I've got no idea.

  • http://www.snarktastica.com avasmommy

    Oh my what a lovely post.
    You know she's asking for hugs because you're overwhelmed, right? :)
    That's what I choose to tell myself when my baby girl throws herself at me when I'm about ready to tear my hair out over something.

  • http://www.meangirlgarage.com Jules

    I LOVE that!!!!!!!!

  • sara

    Of course she's perfect – she's a mini-you. Let's just hope she inherits your creativity and sensitivity. You're so awesome! Good luck with the book… I hope that doesn't mean you'll be offline more often – that would be a loss. And your boyfriend is totally hot! God, I wish I were you.

  • http://www.scarymommy.com Scary Mommy

    I so love it when you get mushy.

  • maggie

    She is beautiful and so are you for writing that.

  • http://aparentinsilverspring.com Jessica McFadden – A

    Beautiful girl, beautiful mama, beautiful post.

  • http://redstapler23.blogspot.com Suebob

    It never ends. My mom was on the phone with my sis when sis fell and hurt herself. Mom sobbed uncontrollably. Mom is 83 and sis is 61.

  • http://aparentinsilverspring.com Jessica McFadden – A Parent in Silver Spring

    Beautiful girl, beautiful mama, beautiful post.

  • http://aparentinsilverspring.com Jessica McFadden – A Parent in Silver Spring

    Beautiful girl, beautiful mama, beautiful post.

  • http://catutes.blogspot.com Catootes

    Beautiful. Her, how much you love her and how it shows in the words you put forth.
    As I read them I thought about my 12 year old daughter off to her first day of 7th grade. She's still my baby, too.

  • http://surrenderdorothy.typepad.com Rita Arens

    Oh, the one perfect thing. Yes. I have one of those.