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July 10, 2007

You are what you read

Perhaps this will come off sounding a touch trite or banal, but I've always been of the mind that an individual's interests and tastes -- as embodied by the music they listen to, the books they read, and all the other media they personally select and consume -- collectively say far more about them than any utterance they might willingly offer to describe their own personality and who they think are. I suppose you could say that I look upon people's choices in literature, film, and music as unguarded glimpses into their identity, into what makes them tick and how their mind works -- as small but telling artifacts of the true unfiltered self, if you will.

And so with this in mind, I thought it might be interesting to have a looksee at some booty gathered from my own media buying binge this past weekend... Following the train of thinking described above, what might one presume from my selections about me, I wonder?

Exhibit A: “Final Exits: The Illustrated Encyclopedia of How We Die” (Michael Largo)

Currently Reading...

  • Fascinated by the macabre, permanently installed on local law enforcement's “persons of interest” list
  • Enjoys the films of Ingmar Bergman, the works of Poe, competitive sulking
  • Wears black on the outside, because black is how she feels inside
  • Likely has serious alcohol and/or compulsive body scarification problem

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December 28, 2006

The Importance Of Being Hated

So as part of my whole beach house vacation experience I'm reading two books simultaneously, both of which rock in their own unique and very different way: Chuck Klosterman IV and Bitter Is The New Black. The former has me stymied this morning, as I've just finished reading this piece on Nemeses Vs. Archenemies, and am unable to determine who/what merits either of those roles in my life. Which is not to say that I'm lacking either, but rather that the complexity of my interactions with peoples potentially befitting these titles are such that the lines between trusted confidant and nemesis seem hazy and imprecise to me. I mean, think about it: aren't the people in your life who you love and admire most also quite often the people you measure you own successes and failures against (as your closest confidants are almost always variations of your self, how you see yourself, or who you want to be), thus becoming nemesis-like?

Or maybe I'm just overthinking this whole thing.

Anyway, while I'm busy deconstructing every single fucking relationship I have in life, seeking the location of my dread archenemy, I ask you: who is your nemesis and who is your archenemy (names may be altered to protect their top secret identities, if desired)?

PS: Stop being pussies, people. TELL ME.

PPS: You can make something up, dorks. Okay, like, *my* archenemy? Janice Dickenson. It was between her, Paris Hilton, and New York of Flavor Of Love. But I've decided Janice Dickenson makes me the most uncomfortable, so she's dead meat. You?

October 20, 2006

Stay Gold

One very pleasant way to spend your Friday afternoon: reading the hilarious Letters To Star Jones series over at Utter Wonder.

I cannot be held responsible for you wetting yourself. Read responsibly.

[Thanks, Amy!]

September 29, 2006

Give Us This Day Our Daily Dead

McSweeney's LISTS section never ceases to amuse:

Compare/contrast: Horror Movie Titles on a Three-Letter Budget (and Subsequent Blurbs) with Biblical Horror Movies.

See also: this, this, and this.

It is a cherished dream of mine to have a list of my very own on McSweeney's. No, really. I am a small person, with small dreams. Suggestions for titles/topics?* COME ON! WE CAN DO THIS, PEOPLE.

PS: EEEK!

PPS: Okay, I'll start us off (lamers!)! Title: Most Common Thoughts Of Heiress/Singer/Unwitting Porn Star Paris Hilton Just Before Falling Off To Sleep At Night. Now you! Go forth and multiply (with titles of your own design, or list items for the above)!

August 07, 2006

1:1 Correlation Between The Number Of Blogs Generated Daily And The Quantity Of Demonic Voices In My Head.

The latest State Of The Blogosphere is blowing my mind, people. For example:

- The Blogosphere is over 100 times bigger than it was just 3 years ago.
- The Blogosphere is doubling in size every 200 days (only 8% attributable to spam blogs)
- About 175,000 new weblogs were created each day, which means that on average, there are more than 2 blogs created each second of each day.

I can't even begin to wrap my brain around figures like that. And I'm not entirely sure I want to, honestly.

Back at BlogHer, there was some talk about a Blog Bubble -- something akin to the big internet commerce crash a few years back. And while I don't really see quite the extremity of that happening, its gotta slow down soon.... ummm doesn't it? [gulp]

July 05, 2006

Beach House: Day 4, A Photo Essay.

Helloooo Delaware! Can you hear me Bethany Beach?! We're on Fi-yah!

Bethany Beach.
Rad fridge art, courtesy of Justin.

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May 15, 2006

Belated Happy Mother's Day, Part Deux.

A wonderful essay by Anna Quindlen called On Being A Mom after the jump.

[Thanks to Shannon for sending this along.]

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May 03, 2006

A Cornucopia Of Items From The Junk Drawer That Is My Brain.

Oh my god, my sinuses. The past 48 hours have been filled with bone-crushing, throbbing head pain, so much so that I literally went to bed last night at 9:30 -- lights out, eyes closed and everything -- which is frankly somewhat absurd. Yesterday I talked to jamie on the phone several times throughout the day, per usual, and the conversations went something like this:

Jamie: blah blah blah work stuff. blah blah blah? [imagine if you will the voice of the teacher from Peanuts' cartoons here]
Me: ...Huh? [sniff sniff] Oh yeah, great. Or whatever.
Jamie: blah blah blah stuff about poetry and crap, blah blah blah!
Me: My sinuses hurt! Why are you talking to me about things that don't matter WHEN MY SINUSES HURT?!?! WAAAAAAHHH!

I have the lowest threshold for pain ever recorded, incidentally. I've taken two Sudafed, two Benadryl, and four Excedrin this morning alone. Think that might be, uhh, overkill?

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April 17, 2006

75,000 New Blogs Daily. Gah.

I was just reading over the new State of The Blogosphere and thinking: 75K a day, and I know of none of them. It seems there must be diminishing returns: as more and more blogs are created over time, new blogs become almost invisible, buried in the sheer volume of their own kind. How can any one be heard now?

Of course I'm all pro-blogdom and shit, but I'm just a little overwhelmed by that figure and all that each of us must be missing.

February 17, 2006

Fill In The Blank.

[An excellent idea, swiped from the always brilliant Bitch Ph.D.]

Complete this sentence: Everybody should read __________.

My response(s):

Denis Johnson - The Throne of the Third Heaven of the Nation's Millennium General Assembly
Raymond Carver - What We Talk About When We Talk About Love
Gertrude Stein - Tender Buttons
Jonathan Franzen - The Corrections
David K. Shipler - The Working Poor
Amy Gerstler - Bitter Angel
Donald Barthelme - Sixty Stories
Jeffrey Eugenides - The Virgin Suicides
David Simon/Edward Burns - The Corner

Oh don't worry. There will certainly be more.

And you?

January 01, 2006

don't look back, like dylan in the movies.

the new mcsweeney's comes -- at least to subscribers -- with a sample of wholphin, a “dvd magazine of unseen things.” for the sake of brevity, their self-description:

Wholphin is our new quarterly DVD magazine, featuring short films, documentaries, animation, and instructional videos that have not, for whatever reason, found wide release.


in this issue there's a documentary circa the 2000 election by spike jonze on al gore, and it is freaking heartbreaking. it shows gore, without pretense, in the exact light america needed to seem him in: warm and human, with real passion and depth. you walk away from viewing it thinking: a) this is the guy we could have had. WE SUCK. and: b) if they'd shown this after Friends one thursday back in the day, things might have gone differently in 2000.

[bangs head slowly against wall]

it burns! BURNS!!!

December 21, 2005

one sentence book review.

1776 -- by David McCullough: Contrary to popular belief (and high school textbooks), the American Revolution was quite interesting.

December 20, 2005

where did the past 3 hours go?

file under: time-wasting avoidance word-to-the-wise: stay the hell away from ask metafilter.

December 14, 2005

untoward.

joey from a softer world has a wonderful blog. sometimes, when i read posts like this from him, i find my mouth slowly falling open in gaping awe at his ability to articulate what seems to me inarticulable. because i suck and he rules.

he also has a book. i'm hoping to make him my BFF.